The interesting thing about hobbies is that most of them require one’s full attention while doing them.
The concept of time disappears, you even adjust your day, or time off to have the opportunity to enjoy them. Well, surfing is no different. Imagine how good it feels to surf, and the sacrifices you make in order to do it.
Imagine being out on the water while waiting for the waves to come, and you look over to see someone out of the corner of your eye doing the same thing.
Except in this moment, you actually see someone you are attracted to, and the bonus is, that they also enjoy your hobby. The surf culture encourages these types of meetings. Even if you aren’t meeting out on the water, for sure you could meet at any given surf dive or cafe. Being in a relaxed surfer’s environment gives way to easy going conversation.
You get to avoid the usual conversation starters, such as, what people do for work, or where, they are from. If you are surfing, it cuts through those formalities, because, like you, they are there to surf. Why not begin your opening conversation speaking about what you love, and it is the perfect way to meet your surfing soul mate…